Danny’s Place: A Haven in Our Midst

April 30, 2024
An alcove inside Danny's Place with a rose window and low grey cushions with backs in a circle on the floor.
Comfortable cushions for quiet meditation, in the wellness nook. Photo: Franny Osman

When Cristina Morales was about to give birth to her second child in Mexico, her husband’s work brought the family to Boston. That was in 2012. They settled in Acton and Morales’s daily running route brought her up Pope Road and down Strawberry Hill Rd. Her children would often join her on her runs. Morales regularly stopped at a tree that had a sign remembering someone named Danny. He had died in 2003, the same year Morales first became a mother. Morales would speak to Danny, asking who he was, what he liked, how he died.

Cut to 2021. The pandemic was quite hard on Morales’s second child, then a fifth grader. Morales signed her daughter up for a class at the library run by Danny’s Place. Danny’s Place invites people to “Find Yourself Here” and describes itself as providing “a non-competitive, safe space for young people to discover their true authentic selves.” Unfortunately, Morales’ daughter was too shy to attend the library program. However, the staff of Danny’s Place offered some other programs, and Morales’s daughter attended some and found the organization supportive and helpful as she navigated the challenges of pandemic life.

Morales noticed that Danny’s Place could use some help with social media – her forte. For the next year, Morales volunteered as the social media manager and was subsequently hired as the organization’s operations manager.

On the twentieth anniversary of Danny’s death, Cindy McCarthy, Danny’s mom, showed pictures from back then and talked about the tree where the accident happened. That was when Morales put two and two together for the first time. It was a sudden realization that Danny’s Place was named for the very Danny that Morales had wondered about and talked to during her runs. She had been at Danny’s Place for a year and a half before she made the connection. She now shared the story, and a tearful hug, with Danny’s mother.

A woman with blonde hair and big glasses stands next to a framed quilt hanging on a wall. The quilt includes pictures of Danny McCarthy and mementos of his life.
Morales points out a memorial quilt for Danny McCarthy, in whose memory Danny’s Place was created. Photo: Franny Osman
A room with comfortable chairs, a colorful rug, shelves full of books and a sign that says "You are safe here."
The Danny’s Place library – for resting during transitions. Photo: Franny Osman

Last week, Morales led a visitor on a tour of Danny’s Place’s new space, where the program moved in September 2023, in the former church that had previously housed the Office of Michael Rosenfeld, Architect. The building was quiet, as it was during school hours. Morales pointed out the library, where participants can relax during transitions, with games and books; the sensory nook with materials for regulating and calming down.

A piece of paper with the following handwritten rules (called Agreements): 1, Don't go too wild - no sugar rush vibes 2. Stay in control of your own vibes 3. Only use what you're supposed to 4. Be kind, repectful, and use good language 5. Treat people the way you want to be treated - within reason 6. Respect our space - don't mess with the penguins! 7. Don't get too competitive 8. No stealing supplies 9. When it's time for group talks - one voice at a time 10. Have Fun!!
“Penguin Club” group agreements that participants had created as a group. Photo: Franny Osman

The “launch pad,” just inside the glass doors from the sweet little postage stamp yard between Danny’s Place and Twin Seafood, had fun wobble cushions and a mural of penguins–the organization’s mascot. Morales pointed out one penguin wearing a beret, meant to resemble a participant in the program who always wears one.

In the conference room, Morales showed the visitor colorful paper reminders of workshops kids had engaged in– sayings such as “I’m not good at it…yet”. Once a week, Program Coordinator Renn Duffey transforms the conference room into a dungeon for Dungeons and Dragons games.

Upstairs, comfortable chair pillows lined the wellness nook where kids love to ring the metal “singing bowl” before a grounding exercise begins.

And the Spark workshop has a variety of art materials kids can experiment with to find their favorite medium.

Morales’s daughter has made strides at Danny’s Place, as have many of the three hundred fifty kids ages 8 to 18 in programs offered this year. Programs are at no cost or include a nominal materials fee, and participants come back season after season. Who wouldn’t return to this haven, this soft, clean, and quiet retreat?

A woman shows off a well-lit room with lots of desks that are large enough for art projects or for people to work together. There's a beautiful stained glass rose window on the wall.
Morales points out the Sparks workshop, where participants can do artwork in a variety of media, under the colorful stained glass. Photo: Franny Osman

This visitor wanted to ask, “Do you take grownups?”

A stucco and stone building with a steep roof, a rose window and the Danny's Place sign on the front.
Danny’s Place’s new space since September, 2023. Photo: Franny Osman

Franny Osman is a volunteer editor and writer for the Acton Exchange.

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